Hello All,
What is new? Danny is gone, I only have one week left, Crazy Mohamad is getting on my nerves, and I officially have my Exit Visa for when I leave.
I guess I’ll begin with last Wednesday, which was Danny’s last day here. Because of this, Crazy Mo’s wife made a huge lunch for Danny, and a bunch of people came and feasted out. After the lunch, I bought my jambiyya and robe, so I now officially have all the parts of the Yemeni garb, which I plan to bust out for special occasions in the U.S. Maybe I’ll wear it to Tommy and Carolyn’s wedding. Anyway, after lunch, Crazy Mo, Danny, Ghaleb (teacher who Danny and I both have), and I went over to Ghaleb’s house and chewed qat. The main conversation during the chew was about the U.S. Danny and I were trying to explain to Ghaleb and Mohammad, that the U.S. isn’t this fantasy land where everyone is rich and happy. A large portion of the Yemeni’s I have spoken too, even the educated teachers, have this image of everyone in the U.S. having this high standard of living and great life. When in reality, if you are an immigrant, it is incredibly difficult to live and succeed in America. In addition, while we were chewing, the power went out, so we just sat there and hung out by candle light. In the past few weeks, the power has went out 4-5 times, which is odd because it didn’t happen it all my first two months here. Anyway, around dinnertime, Mo, Danny and I left Ghaleb’s house and walked to a restaurant near the school.
Things got interesting in the restaurant, when for the first time in Yemen, I had a Yemeni be hostile towards me. We were sitting there eating and all of a sudden this “crazy” guy comes up and just starts shouting at Danny and I. This made Mo very upset, so he initially just told the guy to shut up and leave. Then Mohammad got up and started tugging on the guys beard, sweet fighting move. When the guy refused to shut up, Mohammad literally took him by his jacket and forcefully removed him from the store. Luckily, the guy didn’t fall into the road when Mohammad threw him out b/c a car shot by a half second later. Danny and I were not able to understand the guy b/c he was speaking hard core colloquial, but Mohammad told us that the guy had been ranting about how we weren’t welcome in Yemen because we were foreign spies. How about that? I must admit, the guy was on to us, luckily Mohammad didn’t believe him. After this we went to the internet and showed Mohammad how to use the G-Mail account we set up for him so we can talk to him when were in the U.S. Finally, we closed out the night by just hanging outside the school, on the street, chatting. Mohammad was all bummed out and sad because Danny was leaving, plus he was coming down off the qat, so that didn’t help his emotions. In the end, I witnessed three grown Yemeni men get choked up and teary eyed about Danny heading back to the U.S., intense.
Thursday, turned out to be a boring day. I had a lesson with Ghaleb at 11am, and then I napped most of the day. Stayed in the house, just relaxing for the first time in a while, because usually I chew qat on Thursdays, but because I chewed yesterday, I decided against it.
On Friday, I ripped a lot of Arabic work and played soccer by myself at Club Al-Ahli. I am now officially the only one who still goes to play every weekend, so it was just me with a bunch of Yemenis. We played on the “basketball” court, 4 v 4 and it turned out to be a lot of fun. Abdul Rizq (from the school) and Mohammad came to watch me play, but were kicked out shortly after arriving because Abdul Rizq was chewing qat, which it turns out, is illegal at the club. In the evening, I went with Mohammad and “supervised” him as he sent an e-mail to Danny in the States and afterwards we grabbed dinner together.
On Saturday, Mohammad starting annoying me, after he went to Hiyma, his village and proceeded to call me about 20 times during the day from different numbers because he does not have his own phone. When I finally got a hold of him, he asked me to give 1000 rials ($5) to his son, but wouldn’t tell me why, then Abdul Rizq told me that he had seen a man hassling Mohssin (Mo’s son) asking where his Dad was b/c he owed him money. Not to mention, Mohammad has yet to pay me back the money Danny lent him to buy wood and a saw, for this business venture Mohammad began in his village. Anyway, I felt bad that Mohssin was being hassled, so I have him the money to pay the guy. Then last night, when I was in my room doing homework, Mohammad kept calling up to my room looking for me. This really annoyed me, because I like to have my private space and I don’t want to be hassled by Mohammad about his problems whenever he sees my bedroom light come on. After ignoring him most the night, I finally responded before bed to find out that he wanted to tell me he couldn’t get the internet to work when he had went that evening. While Mohammad has been a good friend to me so far and really helped me out with my Arabic, he is starting to bother me. First, I’m pretty sure at this point that I am not going to see the money he owes Danny, plus, now that Danny is gone, he is continually calling/looking for me all of the time. With only one week left, I don’t want feel like being dragged into Mohammad’s problems, whether big or small. I liked it much more when we were “street” friends, meaning, we would hang out if I saw him on the street and maybe chew qat on the weekend. I’m not into this constant hounding.
Also in breaking news, as aforementioned, I received my exit visa to leave Yemen. What I did not mention was how big of a pain in the butt/rip off it was to obtain it. Yesterday morning, I have “stern” Mohammad from the school my passport and 2000 rial, for him to go get me my exit visa (the normal procedure for students). Well, half way through my first class, “stern” Mohammad came in and pulled me from class saying we had to go to the airport. It turns out that the idiot (s) at the airport when I returned from Ethiopia stamped my Entry Visa with the date 2/30/07, instead of 3/30/07, the actual date when I returned. As a result, the Ministry of Tourism wouldn’t give Mohammad my Exit Visa, until I got my passport fixed. Therefore, we took a taxi to the airport, where THEY CHARGED ME 2000 rial, to fix the problem they created in the first place. In addition to all this, I had to pay for the taxi back and forth to the airport, so in all I ended up spending about 4500r extra because of the mistake of some incompetent airport employee. These events epitomized why I am so ready to head home.
As for the Arabic, it continues to go very well. I have been making great progress with both of my teachers, and with only a little over a week of classes left, I’m just trying to stay focused and get as much as I can out of my last few hours. It is going to be weird, to say the least, to be back in the United States, and all of a sudden not speak this language I have used/studied everyday, for everything, the past three months. I am trying to prepare myself for the culture shock, which I know is going to hit hard after being home for a couple days. Plus, I’m a bit worried about being held up at customs, because I received an e-mail from Danny the other day, and he said he got hung up for awhile. What is so suspicious about 23 yr old white males, studying Arabic, with large daggers in their bags, and pictures of Sadaam Hussein. Come on now, I will have a beat up Phillies hat on (evidence enough I am harmless), so just let me through so I can see my family.
Congrats, to the QU runners who made it into Penn Relays. I will be with you in spirit! Enjoy running in the best and biggest, track meet in the world.
Hey Sinko, congrats on finishing Boston. It didn't look fun, I followed your race on the athlete tracker from here. I can't wait to come home and start training seriously again, hopefully you'll be refreshed by the time I get back. Did you guys move the store yet?A quick and funny addition about the Arabic language I almost forgot to add, all body parts that come in pairs are feminine in Arabic, except for womens breasts, which are masculine. Go figure.
I’m out.
Rich